Good morning, St. Mary’s. 👋

Today is National Milk Chocolate Day, which means eating a Hershey bar before lunch technically counts as observing a national holiday. I don’t make the rules.

The weekend calendar is surprisingly quiet this week. This is one of those rare weekends when the county collectively decided to take a breather, but we’ve got some exciting things to share.

Let’s get into it.

🧐 The County Quiz

How well do you know St. Mary’s history? This one has a good local twist. Take your best shot.

Want the full story behind the answer? Scroll to the bottom for the details.

Which downtown Leonardtown building still has an old duckpin bowling alley hidden on its second floor?

Bonus clue: One of these was also reportedly Southern Maryland’s first reinforced-concrete building.

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📣 New: The Insider’s Guide to St. Mary’s County

Every week, somebody moves here and immediately has the same questions: Where do I set up trash pickup? Which part of the county makes sense for my commute? And why does a trip across the bridge require a little advance planning?

The Insider’s Guide to St. Mary’s County is my free answer to all of that. It is built by people who have lived here for years, for people who have not yet learned the hard way.

  • The practical stuff: Internet, trash pickup, schools, and getting settled.

  • The local geography: How Lexington Park feels different from Mechanicsville, realistic commute times, the bridge, and when Route 235 is best avoided.

  • The first-call list: A searchable local resource directory for the inevitable “we need a person for this” moment, from plumbers to pediatricians to the closest emergency vet.

  • The good part: Where people actually shop, eat, and spend a free Saturday once the boxes are gone.

It is not a relocation brochure full of addresses you could have searched yourself. It is the local context that makes this place easier to figure out. The goal is less time hunting down trash pickup and more time enjoying a soft-shell crab sandwich in peace. Send it to the next person you hear is moving here.

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🏡 Around the County

⭐ The Top Pick

Saturday, August 1 | 5:30 PM @ James P. Muldoon River Center / Teddy Turner Waterfront, St. Mary’s City

The Governor’s Cup shore activities get an evening centerpiece: a waterfront luau with a buffet, Hawaiian music, hula dancers, and a Polynesian fire performance. It is a memorable way to catch the race-weekend energy after the boats begin arriving.

Tickets are $50 in advance or $60 at the door.

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🗓️ Your Weekly Calendar

Wednesday, July 29

Thursday, July 30

  • The SpongeBob Musical | 8 PM @ Three Notch Theatre, Lexington Park. Newtowne Players brings Bikini Bottom to the stage, with performances continuing through Sunday.

Friday, July 31

  • Family Fun Friday: Maryland Mammals | 9 AM to 11 AM @ Calvert Marine Museum, Solomons. Learn about Maryland’s native mammals with a themed craft and activities for kids.

  • The Market at MedStar St. Mary’s | 10 AM to 2 PM @ MedStar St. Mary’s Hospital, Leonardtown. Shop local produce, prepared food, honey, and other goods in the hospital’s front parking lot.

  • R.A.D. Women & Teens’ Self-Defense Class | 2 PM @ Leonardtown Library. The first session of a free two-day practical self-defense course for women and teens.

  • St. Mary’s County National Lawn Mower Races | Gates at 4 PM; Trials at 5 PM; Racing at 7 PM @ Bowles Farms, Clements. Friday night opens the county’s annual mower-racing weekend.

  • Ridge, White & Blue | 5:30 PM to 9 PM @ American Legion Post 255, Ridge. An America 250 celebration supporting St. Michael’s School and Ridge Elementary.

  • Line Dancing with Lisa | 6:15 PM to 8 PM @ Port of Leonardtown Winery, Leonardtown. Country and pop line-dance instruction, plus open dancing between lessons.

Saturday, August 1

Sunday, August 2

  • SoMD Cars & Coffee | 8 AM to 11 AM @ Laurel Glen Shopping Center, California. A relaxed Sunday morning lineup of cars, coffee, and people willing to discuss horsepower before breakfast.

🎳 Leonardtown’s Bowling Alley Hiding Upstairs

Walk into Social Coffeehouse for a latte and you would not guess there is an old duckpin bowling alley sitting upstairs. But there it is, quietly taking up space above one of downtown Leonardtown’s busiest corners.

The building is the Duke Building at Fenwick and Washington, built by Roland B. Duke in the 1920s. It was reportedly Southern Maryland’s first reinforced-concrete building and the place where the region saw its first talking movie, which is a fairly strong résumé for a building most people now associate with coffee.

The second floor hosted graduations, parties, and receptions before duckpin lanes went in around 1930. Over the years, the building has been a grocery store, restaurant, Greyhound depot, bar, natural-foods store, and florist. Leonardtown has been keeping a bowling alley above its coffee shop for nearly a century. That feels on brand.

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